I guess you want the VIBR to defuse and not explode.
You can set life of CFLM to say 9999 and allow direct contact with VIBR or you can also manually set the .tmp2 of VIBR to 6003.
Ok that .tmp2 set to 6003 is i guess some random thing a user added in WIKI page.
Anyway the code says if there is a near by CFLM particle , the .tmp & .tmp2 of VIBR gets set to 0 and 1 respectively, so you can try setting both .tmp and .tmp2 values to 0 and 1 and it should hopefully work.